Managing Stress in Children: A Carers Guide

Stress is a natural part of life, but it can become overwhelming and have a negative impact on our well-being if not managed effectively. This is especially true for children, who may not have the same coping skills and resources as adults to deal with stress. Here are some helpful tips to teach children how to manage stress.

  1. Identify the cause of stress: The first step in managing stress is to identify what is causing it. This can be a difficult task for children, but encourage them to think about what makes them feel overwhelmed and try to put their feelings into words.
  2. Practice deep breathing: Deep breathing is a simple but effective way to calm the mind and body. Teach children to inhale deeply, hold their breath for a few seconds, and then exhale slowly. Encourage them to do this for a few minutes several times a day.
  3. Exercise regularly: Physical activity is a great way to relieve stress and improve mental health. Encourage children to participate in activities they enjoy, such as playing a sport, going for a walk, or dancing.
  4. Get enough sleep: Sleep is essential for good mental health, and a lack of sleep can increase stress levels. Encourage children to establish a regular sleep routine and stick to it. This means going to bed and waking up at the same time every day.
  5. Eat a healthy diet: A balanced diet that includes plenty of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean protein can help children feel their best and manage stress more effectively.
  6. Connect with others: Building strong relationships with friends, family, and teachers can help children feel supported and less stressed. Encourage children to participate in social activities and to talk about their feelings with someone they trust.
  7. Use mindfulness techniques: Mindfulness is the practice of paying attention to the present moment. Teach children to focus on their breath and their surroundings, and to let their thoughts come and go without getting caught up in them.

In conclusion, teaching children how to manage stress is an important part of helping them develop healthy habits for a lifetime. By incorporating these tips into their daily routine, children can learn to effectively cope with stress and maintain good mental health.


  • American Psychological Association. (2019). Stress in Children and Adolescents.
  • Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2021). Stress Management for Children and Teens.
  • Mayo Clinic. (2021). Stress Management for Children and Teens.